Experiences of Unwelcome Treatment in Diverse American Settings

As a single older woman living in Canada, I have often experienced unwelcome treatment in cafes, restaurants, hotels, and pubs across the United States. These experiences have ranged from blatant discrimination to subtle signs of disapproval, causing me to seek out more welcoming establishments.

Restaurant and Hotel Experiences

Over the years, I have encountered various instances of discrimination in both restaurant and hotel settings. For example, in Pennsylvania, during a road trip from Toronto to Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, we stayed in a town where our hotel experience was particularly disheartening. While returning to Toronto, we checked into a Marriott hotel. Despite being in a hotel chain known for its amenities, the lack of a washroom in the lobby and the discovery of nearby washrooms only added to our frustration. Upon dining at a local restaurant, we encountered a concerning level of discrimination and hostility from staff and other diners. The restaurant, as shown on TripAdvisor, was crowded, but our table, containing a visibly diverse family, was openly scrutinized and treated as an oddity.

Impact on Business and Community Relations

These experiences have impacted not only my personal enjoyment and comfort but also my willingness to support certain establishments. I have chosen to patronize businesses that maintain an unwavering attitude of friendliness and openness. This approach has helped me navigate the challenges of being unwelcomed in otherwise welcoming communities.

Broader Implications

The incidents described above were not isolated occurrences but part of a wider trend of discrimination, particularly since the Trump administration. My conversation with a long-time business associate who has been a Republican for decades revealed that this issue has deeply impacted many Americans, leading some to reconsider their political affiliations.

While I continue to believe in the decency and fairness of most Americans, the experiences mentioned highlight the importance of understanding and empathy, especially in diverse and inclusive communities. The people in the town I visited likely lack exposure to other cultures and lifestyles, which has contributed to a limited perspective on the world. Nevertheless, I still find the little town beautiful and appreciate the community around it. It is hoped that with increased exposure and global awareness, the residents will have a richer and more beautiful understanding of the world.

Conclusion: Experiences of unwelcome treatment in various American settings reflect a broader issue of discrimination and lack of inclusivity. It is crucial for individuals and communities to recognize and address these issues to create more welcoming and supportive environments.

Keywords: discrimination in restaurants, unwelcoming atmosphere, racial discrimination