How Do You Celebrate Thanksgiving When It's Not Your Country’s Tradition?

Thanksgiving, a national holiday in the United States celebrating events that occurred during the initial formation of the nation, is unique in that it is not commemorated in other countries. However, many individuals and communities around the world still celebrate this tradition, blending it with their own unique customs and experiences. Let's explore how people in different parts of the world embrace and adapt the spirit of Thanksgiving.

The Uniqueness of Thanksgiving

While most countries have their own national days, religious holidays, or historic commemorations that hold national significance, only the United States celebrates Thanksgiving. The holiday is deeply rooted in the colonizers’ thanksgiving to the local tribes for their survival. It's a day for reflection, gratitude, and gathering with loved ones. In a globalized world, how do those living abroad and those from other nations celebrate Thanksgiving?

Adapting Thanksgiving: An International Experience

The residents of Singapore, where I lived for a period, had a unique approach to celebrating Thanksgiving. Despite it being celebrated during a time when the national celebrations might not align with the holiday, our family incorporated Thanksgiving traditions into our routine. For three consecutive Thanksgivings, we invited friends from various walks of life, creating a vibrant and diverse setting for this American holiday.

First Thanksgiving in Singapore

The first Thanksgiving in Singapore was a delightful gathering with friends from Australia and New Zealand. We enjoyed a traditional American feast, but it was clear that our guests were puzzled by the social norms. When they finished their first helping and asked where the dishwasher was, it became evident that their experience with American diets and table manners was limited. This incident taught us that while the menu could remain the same, the experience of celebrating might differ based on cultural backgrounds.

Subsequent Thanksgivings in Singapore

In the following years, we expanded our Thanksgiving celebrations to include a broader array of cultural contributions. We hosted two big parties, with around 30 people joining from different countries. The menu was rich with diverse side dishes and main courses, showcasing the talents of people from various backgrounds. Here are a few examples:

Indian samosas served as a delightful Thanksgiving side dish, adding a crunch and subtle spices to the meal. Pinxelle red cabbage, a traditional Polish side, made an excellent substitute for cranberry sauce when it was running low. Greek spinach dishes kicked off the festivities, creating a lively atmosphere for the holiday meal.

The only notable absence during these celebrations was the participation of Americans. Our two American children and a handful of friends from the U.S. remained in the U.S. for their own family gatherings, while the rest of us enjoyed a celebration tailored to our international community.

Returning Home to the USA

Our first Thanksgiving back in the USA was markedly different. Unlike the lively and diverse parties in Singapore, the gathering here was more traditional and subdued, with only two guest families joining us. The experience was bittersweet, as we missed the vibrant atmosphere and eclectic mix of people from different nationalities. It was a poignant reminder of how Thanksgiving can transform into a deeply personal experience when celebrated surrounded by familiar faces.

Embracing the Spirit of Thanksgiving

Despite the physical distance, the spirit of Thanksgiving remains culturally adaptable. By inviting friends and family from around the globe, we not only celebrated the holiday but also embraced our shared human experience. Whether it's through diverse cuisines, unique traditions, or simply the act of coming together, Thanksgiving can be celebrated in a way that reflects the global community.

Conclusion

The celebration of Thanksgiving is a beautiful blend of history and personal experience. While the holiday is deeply rooted in American traditions, it can be adapted and celebrated in ways that honor our diverse backgrounds and experiences. Whether you are in the U.S. or abroad, embracing the spirit of gratitude and togetherness can make Thanksgiving a truly meaningful and unforgettable experience.