The Surprising Lesson from a Chubby Black Santa: Bridging Racial Barriers in Early Childhood

Christmas has always been a beloved holiday, a moment of joy and tradition that brings communities together. One such memory from my early childhood stands out sharply among many, a lesson in awareness born from a chubby black Santa in the town of North Carolina in 1963.

A Childhood Decision to Embrace Diversity

As the 6th grade approached, our school was planning a festive Christmas party. The need for a Santa was inevitable, and the class settled on a vibrant and hearty individual named Bernard. Bernard, amidst his big-toothed smile, brought with him a presence that was the embodiment of happiness. However, my initial reaction to witnessing a non-white Santa was shock and dismay. I vehemently protested, aligning myself with my father’s upbringing and societal norms. But as the class insisted on Bernard being Santa, I was forced to confront my own views.

The Catalyst for Life-Affirming Introspection

My father, born in rural Georgia in 1911, was raised with what was considered typical southern racist beliefs for the time. Despite not being overt about it, it was clear where he stood based on the historical context of the deep south. While Bernard became the Santa for our class party, my father’s military service and role as a Marine Staff Sergeant provided an interesting contrast. He displayed no prejudice when it came to discipline, treating all Marines with the same rigorous standards regardless of race.

Reflecting on this experience as an 11-year-old, it was a profound moment of introspection. The transition from my former self—conflicted and initially resistant—to a more enlightened version of myself underscored the transformative power of growing up. This period marked the onset of a new generation, emboldened by a corrected and enlightened perspective on humanity. Martin Luther King’s vision, encapsulated in his famous words, “I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character,” became a guiding light for the transformation.

A Personal Encounter and the Impact of Black Santa

Years later, during the junior year of high school, I was fortunate enough to encounter Bernard again. As a Marine Corps kid who moved frequently, these reunions were not uncommon. Returning to the same base as my 6th-grade year, I ran into Bernard, who had returned for duty. The encounter was full of delight, surprise, and ultimately, a heartfelt reunion. Interestingly, Bernard had taken on a new name, that of Big Mike, suggesting a fresh start and embracing a new identity. It was a delightful moment and served as a reminder of the power of personal growth and change.

A Call to Recognize and Celebrate Diversity

The chubby black Santa in my class party, Bernard, became a symbol of bridging racial barriers and helping me to confront my own prejudices. It was Bernard's presence that triggered an essential lesson in racial awareness and understanding, a lesson that set the foundation for a more tolerant and inclusive society. As we look back at the late 1960s, a transformative period in societal outlook, we see the emergence of a new generation more inclined toward a more equitable and just world.

An Eternal Thanks to the Veterans

We should not forget the contributions of our veterans and their families who made these transitions possible, often enduring incredible hardships in the service of their country. Their dedication to our nation and the sacrifices they made while their loved ones served further emphasize the value of honor, courage, and devotion to duty. These values are reflected in the characters they fostered in their children, like myself.

Conclusion

In the spirit of Martin Luther King and the ideals of a more equitable future, we should embrace the diversity around us and celebrate each unique individual, regardless of their skin color. The chubby black Santa Bernard not only brought joy to our Christmas celebration but also opened a door to my own awareness and acceptance of different backgrounds and perspectives.

Let us remember to value the lessons of the past and work towards a more united and inclusive future for all. We can honor Bernard and the many others who paved the way for a more enlightened society.